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How to Avoid Romance Scams

by | Mar 2, 2020 | scams, tips for everyone |

Yes, it CAN happen to you

It’s no secret that dating apps are swimming with catfish. Romance scammers are everywhere and the dangers are real.

People write in to DateID with horror stories every day. They are routinely losing anywhere from a few hundred to a few thousand dollars.

I know what you’re thinking: It won’t happen to me.

Think again.

Smart, savvy people get scammed all the time.

I’ve been catfished more times than I can count, including on all the well-known dating apps. I’m embarrassed to admit that I’ve nearly fallen for it more than once. And I’m supposed to be an expert on this!

When you see a beautiful woman (or a handsome man) on a dating app or website, it can be hard to resist. Due to the “ostrich bias”, which is the tendency we all have to ignore negative information, digital daters are prone to overlook signs that there could be a scammer hiding behind the dating profile.

Online dating romance scam

Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid! and Match are all rife with scammers. The niche dating websites are even worse.

Here’s an example of the beginning of the classic dating verification scam (AKA hookup ID, meetup ID, dating safety ID, etc), as seen on Tinder.

hookup ID romance scamIn this classic romance scam, a bot asks you to get verified.

Fake hookup ID profileA fake hookup verification profile that’s alarmingly convincing

You’re on your own

Don’t count on the dating companies to protect you. They’re not interested.

Match.com recently lost a multimillion-dollar lawsuit after being found guilty of knowingly allowing scammers to remain on the platform (because it increased subscriptions and Match made more money).

The consequences of romance scams can be anywhere from mild to severe. Best case you waste a few hours of your time. Worst case, you get your heart broken and lose thousands of dollars.

Bottom line, you need to protect yourself. And DateID can help.

How to Avoid Romance Scams

Here are four sure-fire ways to avoid romance scams.

1. Ask your love interest to verify their identity

If you have any suspicions that you’re being catfished, ask the person to verify their identity on DateID.

They’ll need to level up to Gold for you to be sure. They’ll need to do a “liveness test” and upload a driver license or passport. This combination is virtually impossible to spoof. It’s 100% free so they can’t use money as an excuse, and they have nothing lose. If they won’t, they may be a scammer.

Only DateID does legit ID verification. Do not trust any other service claiming to do verification for dating.

2. Ask them to verify their photos

You can also ask them to join DateID, for free, and upload recent photos. Photos will show the date they were originally taken. If they can’t produce anything recent, most likely they’re not the person behind the photos.

3. Background check them on DateID

If you have a name, email address, phone number, social media username or profile URL, run it through DateID.

Date searches databases that contain virtual every record in existence, so if it can’t be found, it’s probably because they’re using a “burner” account. If that’s the case, there’s a high likelihood you’re being scammed.

4. Add your watermarked photos to dating apps

Your free DateID membership includes unlimited downloads of watermarked photos. Add them to your dating apps to show you’re a savvy, and you’ll deter scammers right out of the gate. You can be sure they’ll move on to an easier target.

Save yourself time, money, and heartache. Always take measures to protect yourself if you have any suspicions at all.

Romance scammers be gone

If you’re reading this, maybe you’re concerned that you’re being catfished. I really want you to stay safe so, I’ll give you free background check. Use promo code CATFISH at checkout and we’ll waive any fees.


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Remy Tennant Administrator
Remy’s a tech marketer, entrepreneur and serial online dater who founded DateID after going on one too many bad first dates. He’s been online dating on and off since 2005 and watched things gradually go downhill as online dating entered the mainstream. Remy believes that lies, deception, and lack of accountability are some of the roots of the problem, and that increased transparency is part of the solution.

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Remy Tennant Administrator
Remy’s a tech marketer, entrepreneur and serial online dater who founded DateID after going on one too many bad first dates. He’s been online dating on and off since 2005 and watched things gradually go downhill as online dating entered the mainstream. Remy believes that lies, deception, and lack of accountability are some of the roots of the problem, and that increased transparency is part of the solution.
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